These terms get tossed around a lot — and while they’re often used interchangeably, they don’t all mean the same thing. More importantly, some of them are a little misleading. Let’s clear it up.
First, the honest truth:
“Day-of coordination” doesn’t really exist.
No one — and we mean no one — can walk into your wedding day cold and successfully run it without prior involvement. Weddings require preparation, vendor knowledge, timelines, and context. That work must happen before the wedding day.
You may hear the term “Month-of Coordination,” which is closer… but still not always fully accurate either. Coordination is a process, not a single day.
Here’s how the roles actually break down:
1. Wedding Planner (Full-Service Planning)
A wedding planner is involved from the very beginning and stays with you all the way through your wedding day. This is the most comprehensive level of support and includes both planning and coordination.
What a Wedding Planner Typically Handles:
- Budget creation and ongoing management
- Vendor sourcing, vetting, and contract guidance
- Wedding design, vision, and aesthetics
- Planning timelines (months out and wedding day)
- Logistics, schedules, and strategy
- Communication with vendors throughout the process
- Rehearsal coordination and full wedding day execution
- Guidance, advice, and decision support at every stage
When This Is the Right Fit:
Ideal for couples who want full support, have complex logistics, larger guest counts, busy schedules, or simply want a professional managing everything.
Typically booked 9–12+ months before the wedding.
Think full-service, start-to-finish support & yes, this typically already includes wedding day coordination.
2. Wedding Coordinator (Partial / Lead Coordination)
A wedding coordinator steps in once the couple has done most of the planning but needs professional support to bring everything together and execute it smoothly. While they may not help select every vendor, they do take over communication, logistics, and leadership as the wedding approaches.
What a Wedding Coordinator Typically Handles:
- Reviewing contracts and vendor details
- Confirming vendors and final logistics
- Creating a detailed wedding day timeline
- Managing communication leading up to the wedding
- Coordinating the rehearsal
- Acting as the main point of contact on wedding day
- Managing ceremony and reception flow
- Ensuring the couple, wedding party, and guests have a seamless experience
When This Is the Right Fit:
Best for couples who planned most of the wedding themselves but don’t want to run it. Also great for couples who need a neutral professional to finalize decisions and manage moving parts.
Typically booked 3–6 months before the wedding.
Wedding coordination already includes wedding day execution — no extra hire needed.
3. So… What About “Day-Of Coordination”?
Let’s be very clear.
A true “day-of coordinator” someone who only shows up on your wedding day with no prior preparation is not realistic or effective.
Even packages marketed as “day-of” actually require:
- Weeks of preparation
- Timeline creation
- Vendor confirmations
- Rehearsal management
A more accurate term is Lead or Month-Of Coordination, but even that varies depending on the level of support provided.
Bottom line:
If someone is coordinating your wedding well, they’ve been involved before the wedding day, period.
What Couples Really Need to Know
- Wedding planners and coordinators already handle wedding day coordination as part of their services
- You do not need to hire a separate person just to “run the day”
- The key is hiring the right team for your needs. Professionals who:
- Understand your vision
- Communicate clearly
- Prepare thoroughly
- Provide the level of support you want
In Summary
- Wedding Planner: Full planning + coordination from start to finish
- Wedding Coordinator: Final logistics + wedding day execution
- “Day-Of Coordinator”: A misleading term — real coordination requires advance work